Holdrum Guidance Department

 

To schedule a parent conference:

 

Grades 7 and 8: 

Call Mrs. Maureen Monaghan at 201.358.4016 ext. 1003, or contact by e-mail at
mmonaghan@rivervaleschools.com

 

Grade 6:

Call Ms. Debbie Cooke at 201.358.4016 ext 1120, or contact by e-mail at
dcooke@rivervaleschools.com

 

As school counselors we:

 

bulletTalk to students on an individual basis, in groups, or in classes
bulletHelp identify students with special needs
bulletWork with potential crisis situations
bulletAid teachers and parents
bulletPromote a positive school climate
bulletAssist in academic and social growth
bulletAct as an advocate for students

 

When do I talk to a school counselor?

 

If you…

 

bulletFeel confused, sad, or lonely
bulletHave a problem with a friend, family member or teacher
bulletNeed help making a decision
bulletJust need someone to talk to

 

Confidentiality

 

When you talk to a school counselor, the discussion is confidential.  The only time a school counselor will disclose confidential information is if you indicate that you are planning to harm yourself or someone else.

 

Programs

 

bulletChanging Families Group
bulletSocial Skills Group
bulletStudy Skills Group (6th grade only)
bullet Peer Helpers (8th grade only)
bulletPeer Mediators (with Ms. Smid)
bulletJunior Lead (with Mrs. Diaz)

 

***We sponsor and run a variety of groups throughout the year.  Not all groups run concurrently.  See this website or the Principal’s Newsletter for more information on upcoming groups this year.

 

***Student needs are always changing.  If you have an idea for a group theme, please call us and let us know.

Middle School Students’ Developmental Needs
Middle school is an exciting, yet challenging time for students, their parents and teachers. During this passage from childhood to adolescence, middle school students are characterized by a need to explore a variety of interests, connecting their learning in the classroom to its practical application in life and work; high levels of activity coupled with frequent fatigue due to rapid growth; a search for their own unique identity as they begin turning more frequently to peers rather than parents for ideas and affirmation; extreme sensitivity to the comments from others; and heavy reliance on friends to provide comfort, understanding and approval.

Meeting the Challenge
Middle school counselors are professional educators with a mental health perspective who understand and respond to the challenges presented by today’s diverse student population. Middle school counselors do not work in isolation; rather they are integral to the total educational program. They provide proactive leadership that engages all stakeholders in the delivery of programs and services to help students achieve success in school. Professional school counselors align with the school’s mission to support the academic achievement of all students as they prepare for the ever-changing world of the 21st century. This mission is accomplished through the design, development, implementation and evaluation of a comprehensive, developmental and systematic school counseling program.

(ACSA, 2003)

Helpful Links for Parents

http://www.schoolcounselor.org/content.asp?contentid=130

www.discovery.com

http://www.nea.org/parents/

www.pascack.k12.nj.us